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Ceremony Elements & Special Rituals
A note regarding costs: Custom wedding ceremony fees start at $599.00. The type of ceremony you select, such as civil, religious, or spiritual, does not effect the costs at all. You can have a civil ceremony or a religious ceremony for the same fee. If you choose, however, to add elements to create an interfaith ceremony, or, for example, to one or numerous rituals or elements such as unity candles or sand blending, then, this will add to costs. No fee will be added without your knowledge.
Available
Types of Ceremonies:
Traditional Ceremony with
Religious Elements - Christian, includes prayer and Biblical benediction. Prewritten. Listen to a simple, traditional Christian ceremony.
Traditional Ceremony without
Religious Elements - Civil or Humanist. Prewritten. Listen to a
simple, traditional civil ceremony.
Traditional or Non-traditional Ceremony with
"Spiritual, But Not Religious" Elements. Customized.
Non-traditional Ceremony with
Religious Elements - Christian or
Spiritual. Customized.
Non-traditional Ceremony
without Religious Elements - Civil or
Humanist. Customized.
Interfaith Ceremony, combining
elements from any two or more faiths. Completely custom-written.
Custom Ceremony with any
combination of elements. Custom-written
exclusively for you!
Additional Rituals and Ceremony Elements
We are happy to include any of these, or other rituals, in your
Wedding Ceremony. Please be aware that adding ceremonies and rituals will add to the costs of your ceremony, as well as time and complexity. New Covenant Weddings does not provide ceremony accessories, such as
candles, cords, coins or wine glasses.
Candlelight Ceremony - A ceremony
during which the guests hold lit candles, providing (most) of the light
for the Bride's arrival.
Unity Candle Ceremony - A candle
ceremony which includes two slender tapered candles and a thick center
candle. The lighting ceremony symbolizes the new union. Often, the
mothers of the Bride and Groom light the tapered candles before the
ceremony to symbolize the two families.
Sand Blending Ceremony - A ceremony
during which different colored sand is poured from two flasks into one
larger flask. The blending of the sands symbolizes the union of the Bride and Groom.
Wine Ceremony - A ceremony in which
the Groom and Bride each hold a goblet of wine (one red, the other,
white). During the ceremony, the couple pour both wines into a communal
goblet, which symbolizes their union, and they drink from it together. Variations include a "Loving Cup" ceremony in which a single wine is used and the sweet and bitter notes are discussed, representing marriage. Very romantic.
Water Ceremony - A ceremony similar
to the Wine Ceremony.
Honey Ceremony - Similar to the Wine
Ceremony. Includes tasting of the honey.
Rose Ceremonies - There are
several Rose Ceremonies. In one, the Bride and Groom exchange Roses and
say special words to each other, promising to use the Rose as a means
of communicating in the future. In another, the Bride and Groom give each other's mother a rose, as a gift of thanks for the joy she has provided in her son or daughter.
Family Blending Ceremony - A
ceremony for a couple in which one or both partner have children. The
couple presents the child/ren with a pendant or a ring (after they have
completed their own vows and ring exchange) and makes a loving family
pledge to the child/ren.
Glass
Breaking Ceremony - Jewish tradition. Wine glass broken at the
end of the ceremony. A reminder of the destruction of Jerusalem.
Jumping
the Broom - African American tradition. Dates back to 1600's.
Signifies the entrance to a new life together.
Lazo
Ceremony - Traditional Latin ceremony. The "padrinos"
(godparents) place a 'lazo" around the Groom and Bride's shoulder's in
a figure "8" to symbolize their everlasting union. They wear the lazo
throughout the rest of the service. Can be performed with rosary.
Mantilla
(Veil) Ceremony - Latin. Similar to the Lazo Ceremony.
Arras
(Coin) Ceremony - Another
Latin custom. Thirteen gold
coins are given to the couple, signifying his willingness to support
her. The 13 coins represent Christ and the Twelve Apostles.
Bread, Salt and Wine -- Polish Custom. These three elements represent the couples' parents' good wishes for them and are normally served at the reception, but can be worked into the ceremony instead.
Handfasting - Celtic. In many
cases, a handfasting is a complete marriage ceremony. However, aspects
of the handfasting ceremony can be incorporated into a non-traditional
or custom ceremony.
Assorted
Blessings and Benedictions - Numerous cultures
and faiths. Non-religious choices, as well.
Memorial
Ceremonies - Remember
a loved one in a special way with candle-lighting, a poem, a prayer, a
moment of silence, a rose, a special song, or anothing meaningful
ceremony.
Ring Warming/Ring Blessing - This is more often done during a very small gathering. The wedding rings are passed among the guests or family members and held in their hands for a moment to "warm" them, and during that time, the guests silently bless the rings and the couple. Very sweet, personal touch during an intimate, family ceremony.
If you have a
tradition in your
family or your culture that you would like to incorporate into your ceremony,
let us know! We would love to make it a part of your beautiful, unique
wedding ceremony!
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